After reading this thread by Illimitable Man, I understand that how 'self awareness' in women is quality that I have taken for granted in these times. Self-awareness is a good trait, if one has.
He spits gold on Twitter. Here is a thread on 'self-delusion' in women. The significance of this thread is not only in understanding women, also in human psyche. Being realistic requires effort and may bring one face to face some bitter truths.
Here you go :
Men love women in spite of their weakness, women love men who rarely show it.— 🇬🇧 IM 🇬🇧 (@TellYourSonThis) July 6, 2020
Women fetishise male vulnerability coming from a regaling of the past opening up from a place of strength POV - but that's not love.
It's her feeling special she gets to see something most don't.
Also, we take the normal for-granted. Only deviation from the normal towards worse is noticed. Note here that maintaining something normal requires consistent effort.
I will give you a very simple example, clean floor.
It's normal, we expect floor to be clean, forget appreciation, won't even notice how clean the floor is. But, it takes a daily effort to keep it clean, sweeping + mopping.
In this age, same applies to human mind too. Forget about appreciation, we won't even notice a clean mind. For us, it should be default. However; its not. It takes consistent effort to develop oneself. So, we should be grateful for what we call normal.
Let's be grateful for what we have. Appreciate it and see what you can add to improve it.
Oh, don't forget to go through that thread, it will clear out alot how to identify self-delusional women or people.
I will give you a very simple example, clean floor.
It's normal, we expect floor to be clean, forget appreciation, won't even notice how clean the floor is. But, it takes a daily effort to keep it clean, sweeping + mopping.
In this age, same applies to human mind too. Forget about appreciation, we won't even notice a clean mind. For us, it should be default. However; its not. It takes consistent effort to develop oneself. So, we should be grateful for what we call normal.
Let's be grateful for what we have. Appreciate it and see what you can add to improve it.
Oh, don't forget to go through that thread, it will clear out alot how to identify self-delusional women or people.