Wonderful !
Its wonderful... again .. life is still wonderful. Trying to make it more interesting . : )
"If" - Rudyard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or, being hated, don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master; If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with triumph and disaster And treat those two imposters just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to broken, And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breath a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch; If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run - Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master; If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with triumph and disaster And treat those two imposters just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to broken, And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breath a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch; If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much; If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run - Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!
Desire of Fame !
This one is difficult to overcome..
The temptation to prove ourselves superior..
the strong desire of instant gratification at the cost of others esteem..
the desire to become a guru..
the superiority complex..
the most fatal result of such desire is that .. 'we don't see the way the things are .. but we tend to see them how we would have liked them'.
And in terms of life and business... these are fatal... dangerous..
Beware bwhoopee.. beware..
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The temptation to prove ourselves superior..
the strong desire of instant gratification at the cost of others esteem..
the desire to become a guru..
the superiority complex..
the most fatal result of such desire is that .. 'we don't see the way the things are .. but we tend to see them how we would have liked them'.
And in terms of life and business... these are fatal... dangerous..
Beware bwhoopee.. beware..
!
Wonderful Programme
Isn't it amazing that we all are programmed for "Sex" ! A noble programme meant for the reproduction has been translated into a lifelong motive of human species....
The "Ego" lies at the bottom.. an essential - integral - part of human existence.. you lose "Ego" and you'll atleast forget eating if not die !
The "Ego" lies at the bottom.. an essential - integral - part of human existence.. you lose "Ego" and you'll atleast forget eating if not die !
Money - Ego - Money -
Sometimes.. something hold you back, and you later you regret and want that moment back. Its very hard to get back the moments when you had an opportunity to "Give". Something like this happened with me a few days ago.
It was my second day at 'Kailash Hospital' in Noida. I had to collect my blood report and see my doctor Mr. Manas. I was feeling a lot better than the previous day and there was no sign of temperature. I was patiently waiting at reception of O.P.D. for my turn to get the appointment number from the clerk while a person in his middle age came and stood beside me.
I'm sure he was in his middle age but his face wrinkles were telling me some other story.. his height was not more than 5 ft... he was wearing a two piece ! one pajama and one whitewash dotted dark kurta.
"Doctor sahab se salah hui jae"? - The person asked the receptionist, showing him two prescription slips in his hand. (Can I consult the doctor?)
"salah leni hai,bus" - he repeated again.
"Haan, 220 Rupey lagenge" - the receptionist replied (The fee is Rs. 220)
"salah leni hai, hui jai to"
"Woh, bina fees ke nahin dekhege, jao jakar puch lo" - Receptionist gave him his papers back.
(He won't entertain you without fee, you may try yourself)
And that man left the counter.
Well, it was clear that he wasn't having money with him and needed some attention.
I handed over my report and prescription and the receptionist gave me the report back with my appointment number.
Currently, it was turn of 11th number and mine was 12. The man was stading by the the side of the door. The LED display flashed 12 and that man entered the doctor's cabin. I knew that its better to give him time as I wanted to see if the doctor help him for free or not.. I had made up my mind till then to help him with the consultation fee in case the doctor refuses to help him. I halted for about half a minute and the entered the cabin.
"Aao Negi, aao". - He knows the patient's name coz he has the slip in advance.
He directed to him - "Aap bahar baithia and come after him".
Well, I didn't take his much time and came out and waited for that man.
"Doctor ne kya kaha (What did the doctor say)"? - I asked him as soon as he came out !
"Dawai lane ko kaha hai" - He replied
And may be my ego crashed ! .. its good the humanity is still alive...
"Aapko kya hua"? - He asked
"Mughe ! , kuch nahin bus thoda sa bukhar" -.. .
-- And I thought that I should not wait or ask about him or should not guess who's ill he or his son.. who was walking with his fragile figure beside him or his wife or .. as I will happen to pay for his medicines .. the heart melts, you know......... and I stepped back and hurried towards the door..
I waited there to check the generiosity of the doctor ! as I suspected him.. but.. but .. I lost a golden opportunity to help somebody in real need. And I came back home with shattered ego, alot of questions, alot of well wishes for him and his family and a little bit of tears.. Will I ever meet him again..
I salute that doctor .. you are great.
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One question please, no I'm not a single or first person to ask this question.
Why there's so much uneven distrubution of money in the world, why there's no equality, why the gap is increasing day by day?
It was my second day at 'Kailash Hospital' in Noida. I had to collect my blood report and see my doctor Mr. Manas. I was feeling a lot better than the previous day and there was no sign of temperature. I was patiently waiting at reception of O.P.D. for my turn to get the appointment number from the clerk while a person in his middle age came and stood beside me.
I'm sure he was in his middle age but his face wrinkles were telling me some other story.. his height was not more than 5 ft... he was wearing a two piece ! one pajama and one whitewash dotted dark kurta.
"Doctor sahab se salah hui jae"? - The person asked the receptionist, showing him two prescription slips in his hand. (Can I consult the doctor?)
"salah leni hai,bus" - he repeated again.
"Haan, 220 Rupey lagenge" - the receptionist replied (The fee is Rs. 220)
"salah leni hai, hui jai to"
"Woh, bina fees ke nahin dekhege, jao jakar puch lo" - Receptionist gave him his papers back.
(He won't entertain you without fee, you may try yourself)
And that man left the counter.
Well, it was clear that he wasn't having money with him and needed some attention.
I handed over my report and prescription and the receptionist gave me the report back with my appointment number.
Currently, it was turn of 11th number and mine was 12. The man was stading by the the side of the door. The LED display flashed 12 and that man entered the doctor's cabin. I knew that its better to give him time as I wanted to see if the doctor help him for free or not.. I had made up my mind till then to help him with the consultation fee in case the doctor refuses to help him. I halted for about half a minute and the entered the cabin.
"Aao Negi, aao". - He knows the patient's name coz he has the slip in advance.
He directed to him - "Aap bahar baithia and come after him".
Well, I didn't take his much time and came out and waited for that man.
"Doctor ne kya kaha (What did the doctor say)"? - I asked him as soon as he came out !
"Dawai lane ko kaha hai" - He replied
And may be my ego crashed ! .. its good the humanity is still alive...
"Aapko kya hua"? - He asked
"Mughe ! , kuch nahin bus thoda sa bukhar" -.. .
-- And I thought that I should not wait or ask about him or should not guess who's ill he or his son.. who was walking with his fragile figure beside him or his wife or .. as I will happen to pay for his medicines .. the heart melts, you know......... and I stepped back and hurried towards the door..
I waited there to check the generiosity of the doctor ! as I suspected him.. but.. but .. I lost a golden opportunity to help somebody in real need. And I came back home with shattered ego, alot of questions, alot of well wishes for him and his family and a little bit of tears.. Will I ever meet him again..
I salute that doctor .. you are great.
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One question please, no I'm not a single or first person to ask this question.
Why there's so much uneven distrubution of money in the world, why there's no equality, why the gap is increasing day by day?